Are you negatively affirming your life?

 

Today we will talk about affirming your new life. Begin using affirmations in your life.

 

Think about this Mama!  

Every word that you speak is an affirmation. 

Positive or negative.  

Every thought you think is an affirmation. 

Positive or negative. 

So take a moment and think, what are you affirming in your life? 

You’ve already started to do some digging around your money beliefs, (If not, check this blog out:https://transformwithshay.com/do-you-really-have-money-blocks-or-is-something-else-happening/ )  so you maybe somewhat aware of what words you are using what statements you have or may have had… I want you to realize the words that you think, hear, and speak (all of your words!!) are important. 

Do not underestimate the power of your words. Never underestimate the power your words hold. 

Your words have the ability to contribute to your problems, as well as eliminate them. 

As this pertains to money, if you are saying I’m so poor, or I am so broke, I never have enough, I will never amount to anything, I’m too broke to pay attention, or whatever limitations you have on yourself.. 

If you say it enough times, your subconscious mind will take it as truth. This is what you are affirming in your life. You are most likely unintentionally, or unconsciously using negative affirmations in your life, so this is what you are bound to attract. 

Another thing to learn is, the subconscious mind does not have a sense of humor. 

So even if you are jokingly putting yourself or others down, your subconscious is taking this in as truth. Another big key to this is, your subconscious mind does not distinguish between you and others, so that is why you shouldn’t waste your time putting others down, or thinking they are beneath you. 

 

But here is the wonderful thing, it works both ways. 

Positive and negative!! 

You can change your thoughts to become more positive, by intentionally tapping into harnessing the power of your words.  Take this time to create positive affirmations.

 If you repeat them enough, your subconscious mind will take it as true! It’s science. 

 

Your subconscious mind takes everything literally and it is always recording. Nothing gets past the subconscious mind. 

So how do you make affirmations work for you? 

 

Well, first ask, what do I want? How do I want to feel? 

Get as specific as possible. I told you already, the universe is ALWAYS listening. The universe is here to serve you. The universe loves giving  you what you want. I know it may sometimes seem like you’re getting a lot of things you don’t want… but it’s listening to your energy and your vibrations. So if you are vibrating at the level of, “everything sucks, I’m always going to be poor, I am always going to just barely make enough, I am worried or scared I will lose everything..” you’re getting a lot of feedback from the universe, saying, okay, you’re right.. here you go.. it’s not good or bad, it’s just what is. 

But, back to being specific, if you say I am ready for more money! Then you find a some money in the dryer, or the parking lot, the universe answered you then didn’t it?

 But it’s not what you wanted.. so this is why it is important to make it specific. 

Also, it’s important to make your affirmation present tense. 

If you say, “one day I am going to make 6 figures!!”, one day never comes. You are vibrating in that “one day land”.   The universe is taking you literally. So, use the present tense. It goes like this, “I am wealthy. I am rich. I am rich now. I am wealthy now. I am prosperous now. I am in a great relationship now. 

I deserve wealth and abundance now, I am worthy of receiving. I am ready and willing to receive more good than I could ever imagine! “

 

Get carried away with it, but not attached.. Say something like, “I am open to more good than I could ever imagine! Because I know that there are greater experiences that are available to me, that my mind can’t even imagine right now.”

SHOUT IT OUT! 

I like to use this one, “I am ready and willing to receive more abundance, more joy and more happiness than I could ever imagine.”

 

Affirmations are easy to do, but hard to pick up.. because, well for one.. when we say an amazing affirmation, sometimes our brains say, “No it’s not. You’re lying. That’s dumb. How can that be true?” But listen to those, because these are all clues to more limitations to clear up. When you notice these, write them down, and get them out of your system.. I will go over how to deal with these in another post. 

I have to tell you, I made the intention to work on my money mindset in the beginning of May, during covid, during the uprising, in just a massively stressful time, right? Since May, I have paid down over $10k in debt, and got 5 new RTT clients. 

 

It works!! 

 

So to recap, everything is an affirmation. Positive or negative, choose your words wisely. Use powerful and empowering words. Be specific with your affirmations, use present tense language and lastly… saying and using affirmations are like planting seeds. Seeds take time to grow. You were a seed once, and it took 9 months to make you. So be patient. And also remember, a delay is not a denial. The universe is willing to serve every single desire you have! But the universe has a bigger grander plan, and it might say, you can have this, but you need to work on this first.. that’s why when you see people that win the lottery, roughly 70% of them are worse off within three years after they won than they were before. You’ve heard the curse of the lottery? That’s a part of it. I have a lot more information about that, but I will stop here for today. 

Write your affirmations down, and share them with me in the comment section! 

 

I thank you for reading this content!  

I’m sending you love, and I look forward to seeing you blossom into a fuller and greater expression of yourself!